Merry Christmas!

Christmas is officially here!  Sorry I missed after the first week of the countdown but I think we can all agree that this time of year gets hectic. Hopefully you dear readers came up with some wonderful ideas and made great memories with your friends and/or family.

My girls said they loved making and decorating the cookies most of all and both have asked if we can get the stuff to do it again next year.  I actually got the kits through a fundraiser a friends son was doing.  If you are interested they are from Joe Corbis and I believe are crayola sets.  (Yes, you have to buy the dough separately from the decorating kit).

I also remembered the aprons my mother had bought last year for the girls to wear. They were so cute in them.  I hope you enjoy the pictures of our cookie making.

Christmas Countdown: Days 4, 5, and 6

Last night while I was making dinner, hubby and the girls put up our Christmas tree.  I admit I was a little sad that he didn't think of waiting so I could be a part of it.  Though by the time he was home I was already starting dinner and knew it needed finished. Besides i don't usually do much but record them.  So far we have it undecorated to see how our cat is going to react to it.  He has already tried chewing it as soon as it was out of the box.  It doesn't help that my mother tells me how her cat has climbed into hers and actually while on the phone with my mom last night the cat made it to the very top.  (She is planning on taking it down).  Let's all pray our cat doesn't get those ideas to try it.

After dinner we also had our towns parade.  It goes through Main Street which is just at the bottom of our hill.  The four of us went down, watched the bands and floats, got candy though not always at the same time.  In typical fashion, even though I tried to get them to go to the bathroom before we left, Katherine really had to go during the parade.   So Justin took her up while Ava and I got candy for her too.  About five minutes after she got back, Ava had to go.  Back up the hill went Daddy and again the daughter still there and I got more candy for the missing sister. 

The girls have also received their Christmas messages from Santa Wednesday. I found the site last year and the girls love it.  You get to personalize and add pictures so he becomes more real.  Plus, it's free!!!   Interested?  Go to http://www.portablenorthpole.com/home .  There are also options to buy other packages but the basic is pretty amazing itself.  If you do make one this year don't worry, they change them up every year so the kids won't catch on. 

We also had a night of hot chocolate and Christmas stories.  Maybe that doesn't sound that exciting but the girls love getting to snuggle in our big bed and read stories together. 

Of course every morning we still go around to find Boyd, our Elf on the Shelf.  I was shocked at how many people do not seem to like him on Facebook.  I guess I understand because they see pictures of the elf doing things he shouldn't be doing - things our children would be in trouble for.  Well, that's just the doing of those people and have nothing to do with the tradition of him.  Ours is a good boy and it's pretty much a game of not so hide and seek.  From my point of view - very worth the money. 

I hope you're having a great time celebrating the Christmas season! 

Christmas Countdown: Days 2 and 3

Sunday night (day 2) is a busy night.  With school the next day our girls are busy making sure everything they need is in their backpacks and/ or signed.  Then there is the normal routine of dinner and baths.  To countdown to Christmas we kept it simple.  The girls and I got out some red and green construction paper and made a paper chain to go across the large opening/doorway between our living room and "room of requirement". 

It was a simple task but the girls still had a lot of fun doing it.  I'm sure the fact that our cat, Willow, was trying to attack the chain with everything he had helped too.  It also allowed the girls to further help in the decorating of our home.  Up until now I have done most of the decorating myself with them helping with a few ornaments on the tree.  However this is making them proud and to feel more a part of the celebration. 

Today (day 3) we went to visit my in laws and had to go to the market.  We were still able to continue on though as we watched two different Rudolph movies that were on tv at my in laws home.  This allowed not only fun and new movies to be introduced (one about Rudolph and a New Years baby and the other about a toy thief Rudolph helps catch), but also allowed extended family to be a part of our celebration. 

So far the girls are enjoying our special evenings and crafts.  Hopefully you are able to do this with your family also.  Without a ready made list we are able to modify our experiences to fit what may be going on.  That may be the trick to this. I have several more ideas of things to do in my head but haven't written them down to see if I have enough to cover the 24 days.  Feel free to share any ideas you may have also.

The first day of December

I decided this year to add to the excitement of Christmas and do something special each day.  Our Advent calendar is very cute but is just a basic countdown - no surprise treats. Today we started with making ornaments out of a basic salt dough recipe.  (I will post the recipe at the bottom).

Adding Salt

Adding Flour

"This is so gross"

Our Willow was just wondering if he could eat it

Press

cut

Yes, I forgot to take an after picture but I was tired.  The ornaments turned out wonderful.  Now I just need to get some paint and they can finish them.  They really had fun doing this and will always remember it when they look at the ornaments hanging on the tree.

After they cut out the shapes they wanted, I used a straw to put a hole in the top so we could hang them later.  You may also want to flour your table like we did so the dough doesn't stick.

Salt Dough Recipe 

1/2 cup of Salt 

!/2 cup of Flour

1/4 cup of water 

Mix the ingredients in a large bowl until a dough forms.  Press out but not too thin.  Cut using any shapes you'd like.  If hanging, use a straw and punch out a hole.  Put in a 200 degree oven and bake for 3 hours.  Paint and then seal.  

*Due to the large amount of salt and flour, you may want to go to your local Dollar Tree to get them to help the cost*

Everyday Matters Bible for Women ---- Review

 From the book jacket:
We are so busy handling the challenges of day-to-day life that spending time in the Word can easily become another 'should' among a long list of daily 'musts.'  The Everyday Matters Bible for Women is designed to help you develop spiritual practices that will make everyday activities richer - not harder.

Based on spiritual practices that enable us to focus our thoughts on discovering the heart of God, this Bible offers practical encouragement and tools to renew and reinvigorate daily life.   The clear, contemporary language of the New Living Translation combined with content from today's foremost Christian thinkers helps readers understand and apply these spiritual practices.

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My Thoughts:

I was very excited to receive this Bible.  I have a Bible already but it is a standard King James edition.  I needed something to help me study, connect, and really get into the scriptures. 

This Bible is written in the New Living Translation (NLT)  which makes it very simple to understand. There are also footnotes at the bottom of the pages to help clarify passages even more.  Also within the books and chapters, you will find articles to help us understand how these stories still apply to us today.  For me this not only helps in understanding the message but also allows the stories to become more real and help me achieve the connection I am looking for.

Everyday Matters Bible for Women is also designed to be used in many ways.  You can read it from beginning to end or start at the New Testament and then go back to the beginning.  Another wonderful feature to help in studying are the 24 spiritual practices mapped out.  You can follow through with just one area you feel a need to focus on or study a few at once.  These also make it easy to find answers you may need when a problem arises.   For example, I have an issue with forgiving myself and others therefore I will be using the Forgiveness practice. 

With over 300 articles and 24 spiritual practices I feel confident a person seeking will find answers.  I also love the ways these articles are written.  They are small enough for a busy mom to fit into their day.  As a woman I love reading about the women of the Bible and the way this Bible links their stories to issues we face today.

This Bible would be a wonderful gift to a large number of women.  Maybe a gift for a young woman graduating, a new follower, a busy mom, a friend that needs encouragement, etc. 



Disclosure: I received a copy of the Bible as a member of the CWA Review Team to help facilitate the writing of a frank and honest review. A positive review is not guaranteed, and all opinions are my own.

Book Review - Understanding World Religions in 15 minutes a Day

 

A Concise, Easy-to-Understand Overview of the World's Religions

What religions are represented in your neighborhood, your workplace, and your children's school? Things seem to be changing every day, and it can be hard to keep up. You may know a little about some of these religions. Others are new to you. You'd like to learn about them and how they differ from your beliefs, but who has time to do all the research?

In Understanding World Religions in 15 Minutes a Day, cross-cultural expert and professor Garry Morgan explains the key beliefs, histories, and practices of more than twenty religions, including the familiar--Christianity, Judaism, Mormonism--and some of the lesser known--Baha'i, Sikhism, and New Age religions. Broken into forty short readings, each chapter is engaging and easy to understand. In just minutes a day you'll soon have a better understanding of the world's beliefs.  

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I chose to review this book because I feel it is important to learn and understand others religions.  When we do this, it shows respect to the other person and also helps in areas of tolerance.  

I found this book very easy to read and filled with many religions.  I always felt I knew most but I was wrong.  Not only what I introduced to new religious beliefs but also gained a better understanding of others.  Of course I use this as a guide and as an introduction.  I understand that misinformation has a way of getting into nonfiction.  Being Mormon I am aware that there are ideas out there that have been repeated so many times that the public at large accepts them as truth.                                                                                   

Overall I would recommend this book to anyone interested in how or what others believe in.  Also a great resource to educate our children so some common prejudices can be corrected in society.

 

Book Review: Inescapacble by Nancy Mehl

 
   


Page-Turning Romantic Suspense Set Against the Backdrop of a Small Mennonite Town

Lizzie Engel is used to running away. At eighteen, she left her Mennonite hometown, her family, and her faith with plans never to return. Five years later, Lizzie finds she'll have to run again. False accusations at her job, a stalker, and a string of anonymous threatening letters have left her with no other options. This time, however, her escape is back to Kingdom, her hometown.

As Lizzie becomes reacquainted with Kingdom, she realizes she may not have left her Mennonite roots and her faith as firmly in the past as she thought. She draws on the support of Noah Housler, an old friend, as she hides out and attempts to plan her next steps.

When it becomes painfully clear that the danger has followed Lizzie to Kingdom, suspicions and tensions run high, and she no longer knows who to trust. With her life and the lives of those she loves at risk, Lizzie will have to run one last time--to a Father whose love is inescapable.
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This book grabbed my attention from the beginning.  Part of the reason is that the main character, Lizzie, has a 6 year old daughter like I do.   The book begins with Lizzie getting her final check from work and packing to leave town.  She has been framed for stealing money at work and even though innocent she feels the need to just leave.  A big reason is that at the same time this is going on she is also being stalked and receiving threatening letters.  Letters that threaten not only her but also her child. As hard as it is for her she decides to return to her Mennonite hometown.  She believes no one will be able to find her there and she and her daughter will finally be safe. 

As she approaches the town she realizes that the ultra strict ways of the Mennonite community has changed.  Some buildings and dresses the women are wearing are now colorful.  Still afraid however she goes to her mother and fathers home.  Her father is not home and she is relived to find her mother so happy for her return. 

As the book progresses we find out her Father is very strict and old fashioned.  Growing up Lizzie didn't feel love from her father only his disappointment.  Lizzie took that everyone felt that way about her due to getting pregnant as an unmarried teenager.  However, the community has a new pastor that teaches Gods love and forgiveness and many folks agree. 

In the story of course we have an old friend, Noah appear.  Feels start up between them but Lizzie doesn't feel like he could love someone like her, that it is all in her head, etc.  Especially since Noah is now an Elder in the church like her Father had been as she grew up.  It's as if Lizzie is self sabotaging the hope for love.

Just when you may start to wonder about the stalker and notes, the man she had been seeing outside her previous home finds her.  How he found her in this little known town she can not figure out.  Then the notes start again.  She now must decide is she should run again because the notes now mention innocent people can get hurt.  She was just starting to feel accepted by most and like she had a place in town and now must choose her next move.  

Having a book with a stalker, threatening notes, a love triangle, father/ daughter issues, and a woman being looked for in connection to stealing money at work may seem a bit too much.  Ms. Mehl, the author, works it so well that it easily flows.  She also kept me guessing and second guessing the outcome of all these situations. 

This book is the first of a series though from what I can tell none of the characters continue. 

*I received this copy from Bethany House in exchange for an honest review.  My opinions are all my own.*

September's Habit

Yes, I know I missed last month.  Things were just hectic and exhausting.  Sorry. 

Our new habit this month though is: 15 Minutes.  As FlyLady says you can do anything for 15 minutes except whining.  It can be anything really.  Set a timer, watch, or have someone tell you when time is up but 15 minutes is it.  Once time is up on what you are doing, it is up.  No continuing on because this is what gets us overwhelmed.  How many times do you start to clean out a closet, toy box, desk, etc and an hour later have a bigger mess than you started with? 

During your 15 minutes make piles of keep, trash, or donate.  When the time is up put the things you are keeping away, throw out the trash, and take the donations to the car so they are ready for drop off.  I use this method when cleaning the stove.  It can become a hated task if I try to clean it all at one time.  SO I start at the range, wash the grills, wipe/scrub the burners, etc.  When time is up even if I only have half done I put it back together and walk away until later. 

This really is a great habit.  You will be amazed at what you can do in these 15 minute intervals and still have time for things you like.  If you starting out cleaning and really hate it this is perfect for you.  Do 15 minutes of cleaning, stop and do 15 minutes of what you like (read part of a book, write a letter, play a game or just relax) then go back to working.  You will be able to get your home in order over time with this method and not feel like all you ever get to do is clean. 

So lace up those shoes and set your timers.  Good luck!

Multitudes on Monday

~ Rain

~ cool nights

~ Girl time at the movies with Kat and Ava

~ Creative friends

~ Air Conditioning

~ Books

Multitudes on Monday

~ Air conditioning

~ Electricity

~ Kitten Purrs

~ Creative Friends

~ Answered Prayers

~ Hearing my daughter sing songs she learned at VBS

~ Sound of pages in a new book

Julys Habit

Ahh.  A new month - a new habit.  This month we are swishing and swiping.  Very simple idea that makes more difference than you would think. 

When you are in the bathroom in the morning brushing your teeth it is time to swish and swipe.  Have some cleaner and cleaning cloth handy.  We keep a roll of paper towels and cleaner under the sink.  While you are using mouth wash you can start.  Just wipe the counters, the mirror, top of the toilet tank, etc.   After you are done with your teeth it's time to swish.  Grab the toliet brush and clean the inside real quick.  Wipe down the seat.  You're done.

This isn't a deep clean so don't get into it too much.  This is a 2 - 3 minute job.  If you are like me you probably will come up with a little ditty to hum while you do it. : ) 

Happy cleaning. 

Multitudes on Monday....

Yes, I know it's Wednesday.  Work with me here.  : )

~ Giggles

~ Cool Breezes

~ "B" Movies with Hubby after the kids are in bed

~ Libraries that allow children to make noise and play

~ Late night talks with my Katherine

~ Creating a special memory with friends

My Stubborn Heart - Book Review

Kate and her grandmother travel back to a small town in Pennsylvania to restore a family home.  This three month vacation from her job as a social worker is just what she needed. 

Her Grandmother already arranged for a local man to work on the physical repairs the home will need. As one can guess this is a single man, attractive, and Kate is drawn to him.  The thing is Matt, the contractor, seems to be very introverted and not at all interested in anything else but his work.  Many times Kate tries to talk to him and offer to help on the painting and such and we learn he just wishes she would go away.  She can tell there is great pain in his eyes and feels the need to help him. 

Most of the book follows her attempts to get him to interact more with others and to try and help him heal what is hurting him.  Matt eventually starts to come out of his seclusion, it is around this time that he realizes he can not keep Kate out of his mind.  At the same time Kate is starting to feel more for Matt but continues to tell herself they are nothing more than friends, that she will be going back to Dallas in a short time, and also that he couldn't possibly feel anything romantic for her as she does not feel in his league.

Eventually Matt's secrets come out and we learn why he was so withdrawn.  They also both admit how they feel about one another but that doesn't mean they live happily ever after.  It is clear that Kate has helped him and she believes that God meant for her to come into his life for no other reason than to help him and to bring him back to God.

I have read other reviews on this book and am not sure about how others will find it.  It is a Christian Fiction book however, there is a weekly poker game that takes place with the Seniors (the grandmother and her friends), also there is drinking from Matt and another man that showed interest in Kate, Trey I believe.  I also read about soft cussing.  I didn't see any cussing unless some Christians think "sucks" is a curse word.  I do see where a phrase Matt uses about"having balls" could be offensive.  It could have easily been changed to "guts" and not interrupted the moment or character.  Other than that I did not see anything that problematic that others seem to have thought. 

I did quickly tire with the brand dropping the author did.  I started to wonder if she was hoping to  get free items from the stores she mentioned.  It had nothing to do with the story.  In fact, why did she need to comment on what Matt was wearing almost every time he walked into a room?  I also could have done with less use of 'hottie' and 'hot' to describe Matt.  Only one character did I see this being okay and expected from (one of the senior women).  Everyone else was just too much.  I almost felt like she needed a Thesaurus to help her find another adjective. 

Overall I loved the book though.  I read it in two days which with two young kids is no small task.  It is a fresh take on an old story line of boy meets girl.  It also brings up a great point to think about, that maybe we are not brought into a persons life to stay forever.  Maybe we are there for a reason and once the "task" is complete we are meant to part ways.   I would recommend this book to my friends and plan on sharing the copy I got. 

* I received this book to read and review from Bethany House.  I am expected to give my honest opinions, good or bad. All the above mentioned opinions are my own. *

Old Bedford Village

My husband and I are not much on amusement parks so we took our daughters to Old Bedford Village last week.  It was their first week of summer vacation and we are hoping to be able to do something special or fun every week.  I love early American history and Old Bedford Village isn't too far from our home so it was perfect.  I even went online to see if the girls were interested.  Katherine (6) said no, she wanted to go to the beach.  That wasn't going to happen since it was overcast and about 65 here and where we go is at least 10 degrees cooler.  Ava (4) was all for it though.  So with Katherine grumbling and DSs being played we were on our way. 

I have always loved going and actually had last been there when I was 21. : )    Katherine still wasn't sold on it until we really started our tour, self guided of course.  Once we found the woodworker and she had fun with the wood toys he had made, she loved it.  Then there is the General Store where they got some cheap candy. Oh and the bakery that makes huge cookies.  Unfortunately the ice cream parlor was closed but Katherine sees that as another reason to go back soon.

Ava had a great time from the start.  In fact, we often had to tell her to slow down and wait for us.  I'm glad she was so excited to go and see how things were made and done.  She is my curious one - always asking how things were made.  Our first stop on the tour was a house of a woman making yarn.  Ava was fascinated as she took wool from her basket and spun it. 

After we had seen everything there and stopped at the gift shop we decided to go to dinner at Hoss's.  Another place the girls ended up loving.  They both ordered hot dogs and got their names carved in them.  Justin and I decided there must have been a rock, paper, scissors showdown in the back to see who had to fit Katherine on a hot dog.  : )  Best part is after they ate those, there is a desert bar.  Both girls decided on chocolate ice cream.  Katherine topped hers with M&Ms, sprinkles, and Oreos.  Ava topped hers with Sprinkles, M&M's, chocolate chips, and chocolate syrup. 

I think it is safe to say they will both be thrilled the next time we suggest going there. 

The Spinning Wheels used to show us how to make yarn

Cute displays at the General Store

Learning to wash your clothes.  As in Modern Times Mommy was the one that did it.

Who knew wooden toys would make her so happy

Huge cookies from the Bakery

Confronting Jezebel ---- Book Review

I believe this is the 2nd or 3rd printing of this book.  It has been reprinted to include more content.  At the end of each chapter is some questions and a small prayer. 

This book is about confronting the Jezebels in your life.  The manipulators and controllers that come into our lives.  It shows through example stories that have actually happened but not too many real Biblical references.  In fact, within the second chapter the author basically says all Liberals are an example of Jezebels. That's where he lost my respect.

It's good however to help show how you have been a Jezebel yourself .  Recognizing a trait in yourself is the first step in self improvement.  However, I found this more a standard self help book than teaching principles of the Bible.  Maybe it is from using so many real life stories and not those of the Bible. 

I was given this book by Chosen to review.  If I had not I may have picked it up but would not have finished it.  Besides just the offensiveness it felt too text book.  I enjoy Christian help books the way Joyce Meyer writes them.  So sorry Mr. Sampson, I will not be reading any other of your works. 

Book Review ---- The Fiddler by Beverly Lewis

I have to admit I have never read a Beverly Lewis book before.  She writes Christian romantic fiction surrounding Amish characters.  Growing up in Lancaster she has a great, true perspective of how the Amish culture works.  I received this book to review from her publisher Bethany House. 

This story focuses on a woman, Amelia (Amy), and an Amishman, Michael.  Amelia is an accomplished violinist thanks to the prompting of her father.  However, we find she is performing as Amy for Tim McGraw as the fiddler and fears her father finding out.  On the way home from a performance she gets lost in a rainstorm.  What's worse is she had left her cell phone at home hoping to get some peace after the end of a long relationship.  Without any other option she sets out to find help.  She comes upon a cabin and decides to stop there.  Michael is of course the man there.  He invites her in and after talking come to realize they enjoy each other.  He invites her to his Amish community the next day.  There she agrees to stay for the weekend. 

As Amelia has a father pushing her towards being a "violinist" where she is happy to be a "fiddler", Michael has his own father issue.  At 25 he is still not baptized and his dad wants him to join the faith or leave.  He, like Amelia, is being pressured by the father while being happier with something else.  He is in college and likes making blue prints and wants to pursue that life but the love of his family keeps him from being able to leave. 

Of course the book will explore these feelings and ultimately come to a conclusion of their decisions.  It also shows a blooming love between them.  I really enjoy how the romance is written.  It starts building on a connection they have that has nothing to do with sex or physicality.  In doing so you can truly root for them and these pure feelings.  The Christian part comes into play because Michael isn't so sure about becoming Amish but that doesn't mean he wants a life without God in it.  Amelia wants to have a relationship with God. 

The Fiddler was a great book and after reading it I will be checking out others.  Luckily my mother and several friends are big fans of Ms. Lewis'.   The Fiddler is the first book in The Hickory Hollow series.  Book two, The Bridesmaid, will be released in September of this year.  Before you decide you know how this story ends, this book is about another (secondary) character of this book.  : )  So if you are tired of standard romance of today definitely check this book out.  

*Again, I was given a copy of this book to review from Bethany House.  They ask for honest opinions so everything I have written is how I feel and view this book.  *

Katherine's first filling

My poor little girl had her first filling the other week.  I say first filling but truly hope she never needs another.  I unfortunately have been plagued with cavity prone teeth.  The dentist said they don't know why it just seems some people have them.  May neither of my daughters have that issue. 

To get Katherine ready I tried to read Just going to the Dentist.  I wouldn't recommend that.  It actually makes the situation scarier.  So we just tried to down play it.  (Note:  I had to hide my fear of the dentist from her). 

She did great.  They have a new dentist at the office and she was amazing.  Joking and putting Katherine at total ease.  At the end Katherine even got a certificate of Bravery that comes with a coupon for a free kids meal at Chick Fil A.  I asked why I never got one and then had to realize that the key word was Bravery.  Opps.  Looks like I will be paying full price. 

I brought her blankie to comfort her.  She also was trying to get my Zune to work but the ear buds kept popping out.

Not happy I was taking her picture because she had a bib on

Getting ready

Kids wear sunglasses because of the light

15 minutes later done.  She didn't even need numbed

Summer Vacation

Last week was the end of the school year here.  That means we were super busy getting things ready for when the kids would be home (AKA getting rid of old clothes and toys of theirs so they didn't notice).  We also were busy with Katherine's Kindergarten Picnic.  She was so happy that Daddy was able to come.  Usually he has to work on the events the school plans but due to working on Memorial Day he had Wednesday as a day off. 

Ava got to come too since Pre K started later for her.  Though she didn't join in much with the games.  At every station they would tell Ava she could play and were met with her "No thank you."  The one station she couldn't resist was........sidewalk chalk?  We have sidewalk chalk at home. Wouldn't it be more exciting to do the things we don't get to at home?  Whatever makes her happy I suppose.

The Classic Sack Race

Fun with the Parachute

Ava likes to draw

Having a special moment playing with Daddy

June is busting out all over

If you know and like musicals I bet you have that song in your head now.  : )  I have been missing, I know. So much has been going on and I just seem to want the quiet time at night and not have to "work" at writing.  Sorry.

I am back now though.  So let the rejoicing begin.  We will start with the monthly trait to work on with FlyLady.  June is all about drinking your water. 

Since the weather has been getting hotter it should be easier to remember to drink your water.  FlyLady even has a water bottle for sale in her FlyShop.  I personally like the plastic cups that look like they are disposable.  They are about $5.00 at Walmart.   They have some with gel walls but my mother said they will "sweat".  Mine is just the basic double wall and I can have ice water without all the water marks on my table. 

Now we all know that our bodies are made up of mostly water but what does that mean?  Turns out it should be a sign that we NEED WATER!!!!  Many of our health issues could be fixed by upping our water intake.  Tiredness, constant headaches, dizziness.... all signs of dehydration.  Plus ice water burns more calories and will make your stomach feel fuller so you can lose weight that way. 

Thinking of how bland and boring water will be if you have to constantly be drinking it to get the 8 glasses a day?  You're in luck.  Online (I used Pinterest) there were dozens of water flavors to make naturally.  So if you go out to get lemons or strawberries and blueberries for your kids snack, pop some in a container of water. 

Get your kids into drinking to by setting up a taste testing of flavors.  Let them make their own flavors up by combining fruits and herbs together. 

What I am trying to say is have fun with it! 

Welcoming Willow

We finally got the landlords to agree to let us get a pet.  Of course we have to sign another agreement that any damage done by the pet will be our responsibility and not part of the security deposit.  Nothing too bad and we aren't the type to try and get out of something we owe.  In fact, that is the only reason they are allowing us to get a pet.  They said they know we are responsible and will take care of the property and pet.  I'm sure it also was helping that they know were were talking about a kitten and not a dog.  : )

On Monday we got Willow.  He started as a kitten for my mother but there was a bond between him and Katherine.  She spent the night at my mothers to help her watch him on Saturday after mom had picked him up.  He followed her around and listened to her which seemed so odd.  Then Sunday Willow hung out her for a while so Ava could play with him too.  It was just apparent that they loved him and Grammie told us to get the landlord okay and we could keep him. 

Not only did she give the girls Willow, she is also going to pay for his shots, neutering (when the time comes) and declawing.  All so she knows the girls are safe and Willow will not get sick. 

He loves being here.  It's weird how he just fits in with us.  Seems like he has parts of our personalities too.  Definitely a meant to be moment.

Oh and yes, Willow is a boy but Willow is a girly type name.  See he's gray and mom named him Pussy Willow but we all just call him Willow.  Tried to get the girls to rename him but it was a no go.  Besides there was a movie Willow once and that was a boy?  : )

Becoming Sister Wives Book Review

I am a big fan of the show.  Fascinated by how women can share a husband and how it all works.  Of course I knew I had to read the book when I saw they were writing one. 

The book is written by the adults of the family - not a person that they just told their stories to.  I always enjoy biographies better when the people write them themselves.  This to me could fit into  biography since it is about their life as a family. 

It starts with Kody writing the preface.  Then the wives each get a chapter to talk about how they came into the family.  You know, how they met Kody and were courted, how long, etc.  After everyone gets to write about that they all start writing about being a sister wife and their relationships with each other.  The next section of the book moves to the Family.  How they co parent, make decisions, etc.  Finally comes the section on being celebrities.  How the show came to be, what it has been like being in the public eye and so on.  Kody then concludes the book.

I enjoyed being able to read more about the back story.  It helps clear up some questions a viewer may have, we learn that they are Mormon Fundamentalists and that it is different from the FLDS church and what we saw on tv with the raids.  We even learn how plural marriage is brought together in their faith.  Of course I did find some wives more enjoyable to read than others but that may be because I enjoy them more on the show for whatever reason. 

Overall the book is a fast read.  It took me about a day and a half and that would have been shorter if I didn't have kids and a husband that needed me during that time.  : ) I also learned a lot from reading it as I have mentioned a few points above. 

Remember the new season starts May 13th on TLC.

* I was not given anything to do this review.  I just enjoy the show and borrowed the book from the local library.  *

May's Focus

This month we are to do loving movement.  Nope, not some interpretive dance (unless that's what you want to do) but just getting up and getting moving. 

As always FlyLady sets it to 15 minutes a day and gives you a place on her site to log how much you have done.  However, why not go the extra 5 minutes if you can.  It is suggested that 20 minutes of exercise a day helps women lower their risk of heart attacks. 

So get out there and walk, dance, jog whatever it gets to get you moving again. 

Consistency and Bedtime

That word is both beautiful and frustrating.  Being consistent in anything will take work and is not always easy.  However it is a must when parenting. 

I, like most people, am on Facebook.  Daily I see posts (sometimes multiple from the same person) complaining about their child ---- (fill in the blank).  They don't listen, they have tantrums at stores, they won't go to bed, etc.

Facebook is an interesting thing.  When you post something, you are opening it for comments, ie. peoples two cents.  So when one friend talked about bedtime battles I offered help - what I did that worked.  She tried it but when it got hard, quit.  So the child is still staying up all night and in the bed with the parents.  Though both parents say they want their bed back to themselves they are not doing what needs to be done to get it.

As I have written about before I started bedtime rituals from the time I first spotted the kids getting a routine on their own.  It was just a matter of tweaking naps so they would be tired at "bedtime".  I then got used to getting up at their time in the morning.  Eventually we met in the middle and had no issues.  Before you start with well that was when they were babies, it's harder when they are older, etc I was the one that started a bedtime for Ryan, my stepson.  Justin (hubby) had never had a time for him.  I remember getting off work and talking to Justin on the phone and around 11:30 his son was still up.  It was easier to let him do what he wanted than do what was best for him and everyone else in the home.  It's hard to sleep when kids are still running around, playing, and want attention still.  Plus, Justin would take Ryan to day care around 6:30 every morning and it was a struggle. 

When Justin and Ryan moved into my apartment with me I told Justin he needed a set bedtime.  Ryan was almost 3 and it was a nightly fight.  Since he had always been allowed to stay up until he decided to sleep we couldnt start at our desired bedtime.  So we started with 11.  (Still a fight)  Blankets were thrown and crying tantrums came but we sat by his bed to make him realize he needed to stay put.  It took a week or so.  Then we would up it by 15 minutes when he became used to it and would naturally want to sleep at that time.  Eventually we got to the 8:30 bedtime and he would be ready to wake when he had to get up for Daycare and eventually school.  It wasn't easy but it was possible.  The friends child is the same age, but she used a new excuse that her child was too young and wouldn't understand. 

I write this here to hopefully help someone else with ideas and to show it CAN be done.  You just have to be consistent and not give in at the first sign of a fight or tantrum.  By doing so you may be setting them up to believe that to get their way, throw a tantrum because they will remember it worked before. 

Aprils Habit

Almost forgot to post this month.  Well for those of you still working with FlyLady, April is Making the Bed.  Yep all month you need to make your bed. 

First off, face it.  The bed is the main focal point in the BEDroom.  So making your bed instantly "lifts up" the room.  After doing so you may be motivated to work on decluttering and straightening the rest of the room.  It can also help you see where things may be amiss in the room. 

Since I am 2 weeks behind in posting this you really get a break.  : ) 

If you haven't already make your bed now.  Let the kids make theirs and fight the urge to "fix" it for them. 

Something I found today.....

Watch and it makes you think.  Wonder.  What's with the secrecy?  Why is no one talking about this during this election season?  They speak of phone tapping and intercepting emails.  Why not this?  It seems the same.  Also consider that Facebook has now signed a document that pretty well eliminates privacy. 



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsDhkPym01k&feature=player_embedded
 Call me a conspiracy theorist if you'd like but I'd like to see the answers.  It's not like the government hasn't kept information from us before.

March Update

Yes, I know. It has been almost a month since I blogged anything.  Oops.

Well, on March 17th we had my daughters 6th birthday party.  It was at Kids Kingdom, which is a place full of bouncy houses.  It did get pricey (lucky she is a tax time baby) but we have no room here, no yard and they clean up.  Guess that is about fair. 

That night I got to see Chonda Pierce and Natalie Grant in concert.  Who knew someone would come to our podunk area to perform.  After the stress of the day I needed the time out with some friends.  We all had an amazing time.  Definitely a moms gone wild night.

At the end of March Katherine lost her first tooth.  Her adult tooth had fully come out behind the baby one so we had been telling her to wiggle wiggle wiggle.  Daddy finally got it out.  Unfortunately we didn't have any ones.  So she got a 5.  Yep she was happy with that.  Guess we can always play it off as something that only happens with the first tooth.  That night I sneaked into her room and swiped the tooth, replaced it with the money, and sprinkled gold glitter (the tooth fairy's magic dust) from the pillow to the window sill. She loved it and wanted to show everyone the fairy dust.  Very glad I remembered that idea from another mommy blog I had read last year. 

My First time hearing Natalie's music.  I bought her cd after the show.  Amazing.

Chonda making us all crack up

Katherine stopping to get a drink during her party

Some of Kat's friends at the party though I am not sure exactly which ones these are

Chicken Tetrazzini

Need a quick dinner?  I thought I would share this recipe.  It takes about an hour start to finish. 

You need:
1 bag of wide egg noodle
1 large can cream of chicken soup
1 cup of milk
2 large cans of chicken
1 large onion - chopped
2 cups shredded cheddar cheese

Cook the noodles, chop the onion, and mix all the ingredients together.  Then spread it into a greased casserole dish (I use 9 x13).  Bake for 45 minutes. 

You can also add mushrooms but my family doesn't really like them much.  Also, it is better to chop the onion pretty fine so it doesn't over power. 

Attack on Women

Has anyone else noticed just how badly women are being treated lately?  In the past 5 years it seems as though we have been pushed back, pushed down, down played, and rated as second class citizens.  The fight that our Great Grandmothers undertook has come back.  We need to stand up against this.  Even you men out there can stand up to the ones doing this.  Voice your support, show your support! 

Today I wrote to Lego about their sexism.  My daughters love Ninjago and want clothing with the characters on it.  So I have been online for an hour looking.  EVERYTHING says boys.  Nothing for a girl?  Girls like fight sports too.  In the letter I also warned not to insult us (women) and make just a shirt with Nya (the girl character on the show). 

My husband and I didn't even think of Legos as a boy thing until last year when they released Lego Girls.  Pink and Purple blocks that make a doll house and mall I believe.  Yep thats what all girls want.  Do they not realize the money they are losing due to this mentality.  If nothing else than the fact that women are the driving force behind sales.

Then there is the fun of not covering womens health needs on insurance plans.  This isn't just about the birth control.  When I had Katherine 6 years ago I paid 60 or the 80 dollars for prenatal vitamins.  Why?  Because they are considered as an option. 

Or the people not pissed about birth control.  The people that believe only girls who are easy want it.  What is it costing these people?  Don't we the families pay the insurance to "cover" us? (I think insurance is laughable). Plus what about women like myself that are married?  Am I a slut because I would want to get birth control?  Should I just keep popping out babies so you can complain about that too?  Or what about if birth control is taken away and these women get abortions?  Oh yeah, they will be jumped on for that too.  Where in the world did the Government or even the people of this nation get the idea that they could tell a woman what they can and can not do? 

Then there is the issue with women fighting on the front line.  Don't we need people to sign up?  Isn't that a good and noble thing?  It is when men do it.  How about that when these women are raped that it is somehow their fault?  This disgusting idea needs to be stopped!  Even more shocking are the women out their cosigning these insane ideas.  Where is their outrage?  Why are people not fighting back? 

I fear for my children but I also believe this is why God gave me daughters.  Not to sound arrogant but I am a strong woman that will make sure they know their worth.  I will back them up and teach them to have a back bone.  I will help them find mates that will see their worth and also stand next to them.

Please, help teach your children.  Stand up and fight back against these injustices because after they take away womens rights, who will they attack next?

My baby is growing up

Yep another post about how my girls are growing.  I am sorry guys but thats what happens when you are a parent. 

My Katherine has her first loose tooth.  I remember at her last cleaning feeling the start of tears when they said her teeth were spacing to prepare for this.  I knew it was coming and even that it would be her bottom tooth within the 6 months between visits.  None of that makes it easier. 

It's hard to let go of her baby-ness.  Her baby teeth are the last baby thing she has.  She is incredible tall already, her face is thinning out, and her hands are losing the cute puffy baby shape.  She doesn't need my help so much anymore and the shows she wants to watch have lost the cuteness of what we once watched. 

So please forgive me for another post of weepy mommy-ness.  Though I am sure there will be more to come.  Motherhood is hard for many reasons and this is one of them.

Kirk Cameron

As I am sure you heard Mr Cameron is being focused on this week due to something he said.  In an interview on Piers Morgan he was asked about his views on homosexuality.   Kirk is a very strict Christian and said he believes it to be unnatural etc.

Of course people have jumped on him and even have pages wishing he'd kill himself on Facebook.  All because he stated his opinion.  Now does it sound harsh what he said?  Yeah sort of but nothing we haven't heard before.  Again due to his faith he just stated what he believes. 

He explained why he was against gay marriage in the best way he could.  I watched and do not believe he was trying to be mean.  He was just standing up for his belief.  He even has a marriage conference he hosts so he has a definite idea of what marriage is "supposed to be".

Unlike when politicians say things like what Kirk said I was not offended, rolled my eyes, etc.  Why?  Because unlike most of the men in Congress that make these type statements, he isn't doing it to win votes. He also is not then running out and having affairs etc.  In fact, in the movie Fireproof at the end we see him and his wife kiss.  The reason we see shadowy figures of the actors is not for some great cinematic effect, it's because he said that when he married his wife he entered into an agreement with God and her.  So the woman he is kissing is indeed his real wife and not the actress from the movie. 

Before anyone thinks this is me just defending hate it isn't.  I do not believe we have a right to decide for someone else.  I do not believe we have the right to restrict rights to people who are not really doing anything to hurt another.  Yes, I believe in the Bible and Book of Mormon, however when reading the scriptures what stands out to me is that everyone is to have free agency.  They must choose.  For me to outlaw the option I am stopping their agency.  The church even says to hate the sin not the person.  You are to treat them no different than you would any other member.

What I am saying is here was a man that practices what he preaches and we should respect his opinion.  Even one of my gay friends posted today that Kirk Cameron has the right to say what he would like and we need to respect it. 

You Learn Something Everyday

This morning I learned that the "Mormon Jesus" is not the same as the "Christian Jesus".  Hmmm, interesting. 

I was not aware that there were two different ones to begin with.  Heck, I didn't even know King James was Mormon as the church had not been restored at his time. That's the Bible we use. 

Does this "Christian Jesus" not heal people?  Walk on water?  Sacrifice himself for the sins of man? 

Wait.  Maybe it makes sense.  See our Christ teaches love.  That love is the greatest of all commandments.  These same "Christians" that tell me we have two different Jesus' like to preach hate and fear. 

Well, thanks for clearing that up.  I think I will stick to my loving, forgiving, all amazing Jesus. 

Women's History Month

Every year I make sure to mention and participate in Womens History Month.  I do it for several reasons. 

One, I am a woman.  The struggles women in history had to go through, I feel it's disrespectful to recognize them.  The stories of the women that set out to "earn" the right to vote are amazing.  I don't want to take it for granted.  (Another reason I cringe when women don't go out to vote).

Two, I have daughters.  In fact I have often said I think God gave me daughters for a reason.  I am sure to tell them their worth.  In a nation that is forgetful of the contributions of women I will not forget.  In a time that the body is the focus of women I can share the stories of the power of women minds. 

Three, women seem forgotten in history classes.  If they weren't why would there be a need for womens history month?  Seriously, think back and remember how many women were talked about/ studied in your school.  I can name about half a dozen.  Now are we to believe that only half a dozen women ever had something significant to contribute?   As a result I am sad to announce most Women don't know there is a Women's History Month much less when it is.  Schools still don't seem to even focus on it. 

Things need to change, thoughts need to change.  Remember the saying, "Lest we forget"? 

Stop Already!!!

There is a new photo circulating on Facebook today.  One of a not someone posted on a gas pump (apparently feeling they were clever).  This note basically says that the high price of gas is due to President Obama.  That gas started going up when he became President.

Let's first explore just how it is wrong at the face of it.  A basic Google search will lead you to numerous sites that show the progression of gas and the increased prices.  So we find that it can easily be seen in 2004 when outcry's over the subject really started to come to fruition.  I found a posting for the gas free day in that year. BTW, that will never work.  See, we use gas in many forms, so one day of people not pumping is not going to stop the price from increasing.  Obama was not President in 2004. 

Now let's get to the blaming of Obama.  It seems that EVERYTHING that goes wrong or irritates someone is because of Obama.  It reminds me of when I was in high school and everything that happened, every illness or oddity was because of El Nino.  (You remember that too don't you?)  Really people, when are you going to stop?  Being President does not mean you get to speak and it's done.  Have we not learned that through all the fighting, bickering, etc in Congress? 

In fact, the issue with gas is the fault of the entire government.  No one has the balls to stand up against the oil companies.  Why? Simple.  Elections are not won by votes but by money.  If you think I am just being paranoid then you really are naive.  Is it really even a case of supply and demand?  I don't think so.  Not when year after year these oil companies are turning the highest profits ever. 

Now go forth and try to put a cap on the stupid.  Though watchers of FoxNews will still tell you you are wrong, that you have been brain washed, etc.  They are a special breed aren't they? 

Best Invention

Today is a very rainy super dark day.  I already have been feeling ill since yesterday.  I really do not feel like doing much of anything. 

Best thing ever invented has to be the crockpot.  I already have to be up to get the kids feed and off to school so I just popped a roast in and quartered an onion to add flavor.  By dinner tonight it will be ready!

I am so thankful for it.  Everything just seems to be pointing that this is why the crockpot was invented.  Now after I take the youngest to school and mail some bills, I can rest until time to get them. 

Another Piece of my Childhood

This evening I was doing my normal general search on the web when I found out.  Jan Berenstain co creator of the Berenstain Bears died today. 

I understand that her son has been helping with the books since her husband passed but it still feels like an end to the books I love. 

In fact, I love the books so much that my daughters are apt to buy them just because they know how much I enjoy them. Heck, I am even a fan on Facebook and have borrowed the dvds from the library.  Last year a new breed of yard sale, the online yard sale started to blossom in our area.  It was there that I found about 10 more of their books to add to my collection.  I also have been wanting the new Bible they came out with. 

There are so many great memories that include reading those books.  They are so sweet and teach great lessons.  They create this amazing town and images that I wished many times to live in a tree like they do.  Here I am at 31 still saying that the bench they have in the book is the type I want for our porches. 

I am hoping that they still have many great ideas planned for the books and that they do not get lost over time.  As for our family, I will keep sharing a wonderful treasure I have known since childhood.

Here goes nothing

These are the seeds Ava and I purchases today.  Now we rent and do not have a yard but it looks like we are planning on having a garden. 

I had gotten a tomato plant when the girls were 3 and 4 and just as my little green tomatoes were getting bigger Ava plucked them.  : (  Still sad about that.  She assures me that this year she will not do that. 

Now we do not get much direct sunlight so I am thinking of trying to plant most of this in containers. Maybe once they start to really grow well I can transfer into the small area in the back of our home?  Still not sure what to do but I know I have until April - June since every one of these packs have that as the sow time. 

Really I am hoping that this works since after reading all the weird things the government is doing to our foods I want to eat more natural.  It would be great to grow them on my own since organic foods are so high priced.  Since the government is going to crack down on junk food you would think they would help lower the cost of fresh foods.  Then again they do like to engineer foods.  (seriously read up on it if you think you can stomach it). 

The peppers and tomatoes need to first be planted inside for about a month and a half.  Maybe that will give them a fighting chance to survive.  Maybe the landlord would cut back the trees around our back porch so we can plant better in the area back there.  It never hurts to ask. 

Everyone pray that we can do this and it turns out well.  I love the idea of being able to grow our own foods, have them handy, and eventually have enough to start canning. 

Ahh I can picture it now.  Bright sunny day.  Walking in with a basket of veggies from our garden to cook for dinner. 

Clothing Of The Future - Clothing in The Year 2000

They were pretty close in some areas. Women have done away with skirts for the most part. Plus, at the end with the man and how he has a phone, well we do carry cell phones around. Now if I could only find a guy with the candy for cuties. : )

Also I love the sound effect around 1:05.

Secret Sister

At MOPS we are doing Secret Sister exchanges.  As moms we tend to get forgotten so it's a nice thing to do for one another.  Plus once a month we send a card to our sister and that helps since normally all the mail is are bills.

This month one of the gifts from my Secret Sister was a Valentine Cookie Pop kit.  She sent it with a note that the girls and I could make them together. 

Katherine went to stay with my mom and Ava wanted to do lots of fun things with Mommy.  So today we made them.

 

 

Ava adding the candy heart sprinkles

Ava and I had fun making them.  She got to lick the icing from the bowl and everything.  Now to wait for them to dry. 

Thanks for the great gift Secret Sister! 

Another Reminder

The other day Ava and I were cleaning her room up.  I know, Ava cleaning?  Well she wanted the Hello Kitty wall decals up but I told her not until her room was neat. 

As we were cleaning she found a pile of binkys.  What can I say?  I took them away from her but could not let them go. 

Of course once she found them we had to let them go.  She thought we were donating them and was fine with that.  When I told her the truth that they needed thrown away she was sad.  She then said she needed a picture to remember them. 

We have now thrown them away and it's sad.  Another reminder to me that the girls are growing up and not babies anymore. 

Stupid stuff you hear when you have daughters

1.  "Awe you are so lucky to be able to get cute girlie items." ----  Just because that is the gender does not make them just love all things pink and frilly.  Walk into my girls rooms and you will see matchbox cars, posters from Cars and Toy Story, books about dinosaurs and ninjas, etc.

2.  "Wish I had a girl to dress them up in cute dresses."  -----  Katherine would cry and refuse to wear anything dress like when she was 2 and 3.  Also dressing up a young child?  Really?  They get into so many messes and kids clothes may be small but still come with a big price tag.

3.  "Girls are so much calmer than boys" ---- Trust me, these little balls of energy are just as hyper as boys.  Lord knows everyday I have to remind them that fighting is not a game so stop play fighting. 

4.  " Girls are easier to potty train." ---- Let's see boys can aim at Cheerios to potty train.  What can girls do?  yeah think about that. 

5.  "Girls are so emotional". ---- Yes but I have seen many boys have diva fits too.  Something tells me it has to do with the age more so than gender.

6. "Girls are better behaved." ---- My children behave because I have taught and enforced polite behaviors.  This may also be because people like to use the old "boys will be boys" and let them act however.  Trust me, we have a son he will listen the same as my girls.

I hope you enjoyed this short list.  I am in the process of working on the laundry before the kids get home from school.  Who knows I may think of more later.  Now go forth and make sure never to utter any of the mentioned stupid comments.  : )

Anniversary

I can not remember the specific day but know what time of year it was.  So I have officially gone 1 year since I last cut myself.  Well cut myself on purpose - I do tend to get clumsy in the kitchen. 

So if anyone out there is have a hard time with self mutilation, you can get past it.  It's hard and takes time but is achievable.  7 years ago I wouldn't have thought I could stop.  At the height of it I could have a dozen cuts at any given time.  The past several years seemed like I would do well but not be able to make it an entire year.

Cutting is a way to handle pain.  It's not done for attention.  It becomes natural.  That is to say, I would start to feel bad and automatically when for the blade.   It was during a time like that that I realized I needed help.  I hadn't even realized I had grabbed the scissors.

Here I am now, a year cut free.  Still trying to handle stress and pain but also finding healthy ways to do it.  I still get urges and probably always will.  It's the same principle as alcoholics, they will always be alcoholics.  I will always be a cutter and need to be able to recognize the triggers and signs so I can avoid falling back into it.

Good luck to all who are fighting the same battle of pain.  If you know someone who is harming themselves encourage them to get help.  Being able to talk it out, to hear others going through the same feelings, or just being able to journal and have a place to vent everything.

It takes time but will get better.

Book

I finally found a book that has caught my interest and has held it.  I have had a number of let downs this year.  Actually was going to just give up reading until one of my favorite authors came out with another one. Luckily I found a book to read and am loving it. 

It is a mystery but soft boiled. Nothing super gruesome.  We all know the rule is to get through three chapters of a book because most get interesting then.  Well, I was hooked and wanting to read more from the start.

The main character is in her late 40s and just got fired from the newspaper she works at.  Before leaving she looked up the ads and found a new job.  She then goes to work reading manuscripts.  No one seems to last through the intern part but she has bills to pay and a teenage son in college to try and pay for.  On her first day there is a murder at the office.  She feels she owes it to the deceased to find out who would do such a thing and the tangled web starts. 

This is really a great book to read.  The author has created a very charming town and made sure to add fun characters.  (Did I mention the main characters mother is a psychic and predicted the murder?) 

Definitely one I would suggest you check out.